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December 20, 2024 at 20:55 #48797
DestinationUnkown
ParticipantKrishnamurti was adamantly against spiritual organizations. On August 3, 1929, in a talk to three-thousand members of the Order of the Star, at the Ommen camp in the Netherlands, he announced his determination to dissolve the Order. Here is some of what he said:
“I maintain that Truth is a pathless land, and you cannot approach it by any path whatsoever, by any religion, by any sect. That is my point of view, and I adhere to that absolutely and unconditionally. Truth, being limitless, unconditioned, unapproachable by any path whatsoever, cannot be organized; nor should any organization be formed to lead or to coerce people along any particular path. If you first understand that, then you will see how impossible it is to organize a belief. A belief is purely an individual matter, and you cannot and must not organize it. If you do, it becomes dead, crystallized; it becomes a creed, a sect, a religion, to be imposed on others.
Truth is narrowed down and made a plaything for those who are weak, for those who are only momentarily discontented. Truth cannot be brought down, rather, the individual must make an effort to ascend to it. …
I maintain that no organization can lead man to spirituality. If an organization be created for this purpose, it becomes a crutch, a weakness, a bondage, and must cripple the individual and prevent him from growing, from establishing his uniqueness, which lies in the discovery for himself of that absolute, unconditioned Truth. …
I have only one purpose: to make man free, to urge him towards freedom; to help him to break away from all limitations, for that alone will give him eternal happiness, will give him the unconditioned realization of the self.
Because I am free, unconditioned, whole—not the part, nor the relative, but the whole Truth that is eternal—I desire those who seek to understand me, to be free, not to follow me, not to make out of me a cage which will become a religion, a sect. Rather should they be free from all fears—from the ✓fear of religion, from the ✓fear of salvation, from the ✓fear of spirituality, from the ✓fear of love, from the ✓fear of death, from the ✓fear of life itself. As an artist paints a picture because he takes delight in that painting, because it is his self-expression, his glory, his wellbeing, so I do this and not because I want anything from anyone.
You are accustomed to authority, or to the atmosphere of authority which you think will lead you to spirituality. You think and hope that another can, by extraordinary powers—a miracle—transport you to this realm of eternal freedom which is Happiness. Your whole outlook on life [is] based on that authority.
You have listened to me for three years now, without any change taking place, except in the very few. Now analyze what I am saying, be critical, so that you may understand thoroughly, fundamentally. When you look for an authority to lead you to spirituality, you are bound automatically to build an organization around that authority. By the very creation of that organization, which, you think, will help this authority to lead you to spirituality, you are held in a cage.
Instead of old spiritual distinction, instead of old worships, you have new worships. You are all depending for your spirituality on someone else, for your happiness on someone else, for your enlightenment on someone else; and although you have been preparing for me for eighteen years, when I say all these things are unnecessary, when I say that you must put them all away and look within yourselves for the enlightenment, for the glory, for the purification, and for the incorruptibility of the self; not one of you is willing to do it. There may be a few, but very, very few.
So why have an organization? …
As I said before, my purpose is to make men unconditionally free, for I maintain that the only spirituality is the incorruptibility of the self which is eternal; is the harmony between reason and love. This is the absolute, unconditioned Truth which is Life itself. … Truth is in everyone; it is not far, it is not near; it is eternally there. ”
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December 21, 2024 at 07:14 #48814
Nico Cost
ParticipantI have not read this before but came to the same conclusions. When we go inward we can find these truths ourselves easily. When we listen to others for too long and don’t do the ‘work’ ourselves we get polluted and depended. A true spiritual teachers helps you with the process (how can I find truth) instead of the content (what is true). And even a spiritual teacher is on a path to truth so he/she can be ‘wrong’ at times. Can the spiritual teacher avoid the ‘what’ completely? I think not, otherwise he/she wouldn’t be called a teacher. Earth is such a hard time.
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December 23, 2024 at 07:38 #48926
DestinationUnkown
ParticipantHi Nico, thanks for your comment. Here is another excerpt that speaks to the subject. (I am doing exactly what this piece says not to do, to repeat someone else’s words.) But I feel I have received them on a level somewhat deeper that the logic of it. We can talk about these topics, maybe on Amarynth’s post about the Percival book if discussion get going.
“Many things are involved in this question”. 1,200 words
Propaganda is a lie because mere repetition cannot be the truth. Truth cannot be repeated, for truth can only be experienced directly; mere repetition is a lie because repetition implies imitation. That which you repeat may be truth to someone, but when you repeat it, it ceases to be truth.
Propaganda is one of the terrible things in which we are caught. You know something or you don’t know. Usually, you have read something in some books and you have heard some talk and you want to spread it. Have those words any significance besides the verbal meaning? What you are spreading is really words, and do words or terms resolve our problems? Say, for instance, you believe in reincarnation; you don’t know why you believe it? But you want to spread that belief. What are you spreading in fact? Your belief, your terms, words; your convictions which are still within the field of verbal expression.
We think in words, in terms; we seek explanations which are still only words, and we are caught in this monstrous lie, believing that the word is the thing, or close enough to it. Surely, the word God is not God, but you believe that the word of God is God, and that therefore you can spread it. Please see this. To you, the word has become more important than reality. You are caught at the verbal level, and what you want to spread is the word. That means you will catch what I am saying now in the web of words, and so cause a new division between man and man. Then you will create a new system based on these words, which you the propagandist will spread among other propagandists, who are also caught in words—and thereby what have you done? Whom have you helped? No, sirs, that is not the way to spread anything. So don’t try what is counterproductive, what is the height of folly—to spread someone else’s experience.
If you experience something directly, it must be experience not based on belief, because what you believe, you experience; and therefore, it is not a real experience but only a conditioned experience. There can be experience, the right kind of experience, only when thinking ceases, but that experience cannot be spread as information to clear up the mess. If you begin to understand simple things, like divisive nationalism, surely you can discuss it with others, in order to make it known as a poison, which is destroying man. Sirs, you are not aware of the enormous calamity that lies in wait for you, and for the whole world because this poison is spreading. You are nationalists, you are Hindus, against Pakistan, against England, against Germany, against Russia, and so on. So, nationalism is a poison, is it not? You can understand that very easily because it divides men.
You cannot be a nationalist and talk of brotherhood; these terms are contradictory.
“That also you can understand, that you can talk about. But you don’t want to talk about that, because that would mean a change of heart within yourself, which means that you must cease to be a Hindu, with your beliefs, ceremonies, and all the rubbish that is around you. We don’t talk about nationalism because we might be asked if we are free of it ourselves. Not being free, we evade it, and try to discuss something else. Surely you can talk about something which you live and which you are doing every day, and that is what I have been talking about—your daily actions, your daily thoughts, and feelings. My words you cannot repeat, for, if you do, they will have no meaning; but you can talk about the way you live, the way you act, the way you think, from which alone there can be understanding; all that, you can discuss; but there is no use of groups and organizations, with presidents and secretaries, which are terrible things in which you are often caught.
Sirs, though you all smile, yet surely you are all caught in these. I don’t think you know how catastrophic the whole situation is in the world now. I don’t have to frighten you. You have merely to pick up a newspaper and read about it. You are on the edge of a precipice, and you still perform silly ceremonies, carry on in your stupid ways, blind to what is happening. You can only alter by the transformation of yourself and not by the introduction of a new system, whether of the left or of the right, or spiritually motivated. In the transformation of yourself is the only hope, but you cannot transform yourself radically, profoundly, if you are above all a Hindu, or any other group, if you perform these ceremonies, if you are caught in the net of organizations.
As it has always been in the past, so also at the present time the salvation of man is in his being creative. You are caught inwardly in belief, in fear, and in those hindrances that prevent the coming together of mind and man.
That is, if I don’t know how to love you, how to love my neighbor, my wife, how can there be communion between us? We need communion; not communion between systems, but communion between you and me without systems, without organizations, and that means we must really know how to love one another. Our hearts must be opened to one another, but your hearts cannot be open if you belong to an organization, if you are bound by beliefs, if you are nationalistic, if you are a Brahmin or a Sudra [castes]. So, you can spread even a tiny part of what I have been talking about only as you live it. It is by your life that you communicate profoundly, not through words.
Words, sirs, to a serious, thoughtful man have very little meaning. Terms are of very little significance when you are really seeking truth, truth in relationship and not an abstract truth of ✓valuations, of ✓things, or of ✓ideas or ✓ideologies. If you want to find the truth of those things verbally, it is of little importance. But words become very important when you are not seeking truth; then the word is the thing, and the thing catches you.
So, if you want to spread these teachings, live them, and by your life you will be spreading them. You will be communicating them, which is much more true and significant than any verbal repetition, for repetition is imitation and imitation is not creativeness, and you as an individual must awake to your own conditioning and thereby free yourself and hence give love to another.”
For such a metamorphosis there is only one starting point, and that is with “the me”, here and now, in daily living and relationships.
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December 23, 2024 at 10:08 #48938
Nico Cost
Participant“(I am doing exactly what this piece says not to do, to repeat someone else’s words.)”
In fact, Krishnamurti does exactly what he says you shouldn’t do.
The question is how does one arrive at the truth. If not by the spoken word nor by the written word. Who is able to listen to the unseen? Can you learn that here on Earth or do you get that ability with birth, or not?
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December 23, 2024 at 14:49 #48948
Dimitar
Participant“The question is how does one arrive at the truth?”
One arrives at the truth by wanting truth above all else.
Who is able to listen to the unseen?
Everyone is able to “listen to the unseen”. This is Soul’s birthright. Divine Spirit speaks directly to Soul via the inner Sound and Light. The Sound or Voice of God (Divine Spirit in expression), is referred to as “the music of the spheres” by the Sufis. The Christian Bible speaks of Christ’s disciples at Pentecost; “Suddenly there came from Heaven a sound like a mighty rushing wind”. There are many different Sounds that can be heard via the inner ears, a few being the sound of a single note of a flute, the sound of running water, the buzzing of bees, a high-pitched whistle, etc. These are manifestations of Divine Spirit as It moves through the varying states of consciousness or planes of God’s universes.
The Light is easier to contact than the Sound, and will appear at the spiritual eye, as either intense or gentle manifestations of white, pale yellow, blue, lavender or violet, or pink light. The colour reflects the plane or level which Soul is seeing the Light (the various planes of God have an overall colour or tone, for example, the Astral Plane is defined by a pink/reddish tone, the Mental Plane by pale blue, the Soul Plane white or pale yellow etc.)
Divine Spirit also speaks to us in indirect ways, such as intuition, hunches, knowingness, waking dreams, golden tongued wisdom, etc. (this is a phenomenon when words spoken or read, such as certain phrases that catch our attention for no apparent reason, until we cotton onto the fact that something is being shown to us directly related to a personal problem, challenge or the like.
“Can you learn that here on Earth or do you get that ability with birth, or not?”
Every Soul has the ability to hear the Sound and Light. However, it is like a muscle that must be developed through practice. Likewise, Soul must have the ability to disciminate and so test what it receives on the inner planes, for there are as many purveyors of untruth as there are of truth in the unseen realms.
To sum up, one finds truth at “the altar within”, the template for all worldly temples, places of worship etc. How much we want truth is determined by what we are prepared to sacrifice for it. In seeking “the truth” one must above all else, be prepared to accept truth as it is and not as we think we want it to be.
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December 23, 2024 at 17:17 #48956
Nico Cost
ParticipantWanting something does not make it come. In fact, when you want something very badly, the ego can get in the way to such an extent that nothing comes at all. Surely Krishnamurti also says here that truth cannot be put into words. When you are open to the truth, then you don’t have to do any work. To what extent can a person become more open to the truth, if there is nothing to do?
Opportunity is not the same as results. Everyone can run, but not everyone is born with legs. Everyone is autistic, but some more than others. How much can an individual deviate from his description? How many individuals actually use that maximum range of motion? How many individuals stay virtually where they are? There is potential, but is there movement?
It is good to see our potential and try to understand what our future is. At the same time, we may face the current situation and recognize that there is little we can do and a very long way to go.
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December 23, 2024 at 19:11 #48959
Dimitar
ParticipantYou asked very straightforward questions. I gave you very straightforward answers. Frankly, I cannot understand your reply nico. You appear to be sincere, then as soon as I give you something, you end up like a cat chasing its tail, avoiding the simplicity of my words, and bringing your convolutions into the equations. Your answer is so confused that I will not waste time trying to decipher it. I’m opting out of this particular part of the forum, since I find very little to no openness to my offerings, which are sincere and as simple as I can make them, so that a genuine seeker may find something of value therein. Ciao, I will stick to the Cornucopia from now on.
My final word is this, Soul is not helpless, and Its destiny is squarely in Its own hands. That simple fact seems to be unacceptable to you.
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December 24, 2024 at 04:48 #48988
DestinationUnkown
Participant>”Who is able to listen to the unseen?”
Hypothetical rarified states are the unseen, but the question could be: Who is able to listen or perceive the unexplained, the uninterpreted. I would say everyone can, schooled or unschooled, if they can allow for a still mind. Stillness can be attempted by force. Or you can realize it (by looking), that most thought is uninteresting and unproductive. Some of it will drop off.
>”One arrives at the truth by wanting truth above all else.” Wouldn’t that be merely desire? How would that be different than a normal life of greed, separation and conflict? OK, now I desire spiritual awakening. Isn’t that just an “ultimate security”, to imagine arriving at some sort of highest level?
If you ever get “there”, it may turn out to be quite different than your drive was in the beginning. (You said that.) But what is the likelihood of getting to truth by use of the same old tools of conditioning?
I am not going to doubt that you hear sounds, and see these different colors when you visit the Astral, Material and Soul Planes. But I am not going to broadly assume my hunches are divine. I do think we have ability for direct seeing. I see it more as uncovering seeing from the veil of extraneous thoughts, more that developing a muscle. Does it take muscle to stop thought? If so, it won’t work very well (more desire).
Yes, that is the alter-within. And truth is not going to be what we think it “should be”.
Discriminate, test what one receives, for many seers have a wild imagination.
>Desire (seeking) definitely distorts all observation. Are we desiring to find out what is before desire. A bit absurd. (I think) being open to truth is not esoteric. It just means to observe with a still mind. Thoughts carry all conditioning, No-Thought does not contain conditioning. Conditioning is not any path to what-is (to truth).
> Asking a question is not avoiding the simplicity of your words. It is merely asking a question. In that question is the other, who asked it, confused or not. But also you are there, in your reaction. That is the most valuable part of relationship, you get to see yourself, how you operate in the flux of life. It is a duel focus, outward and inward. Do you get that on the Cornucopia? I’ll go there and see what I find.
Do you have any interest in the Percival book? I don’t think we have to read 1,000 pages to get to the bottom of it.
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December 24, 2024 at 14:02 #49027
Dimitar
Participant“I’ll go there and see what I find.”
I don’t think you could find the nose on your face.
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December 25, 2024 at 00:10 #49034
DestinationUnkown
ParticipantThere are dozens of us on this forum that probably have come to some conclusions about our place in life. I don’t think we are seeking a new way to go about it. Will we find something in the Percival book or not? Maybe that is not the point.
A valuable objective might be to get some discussions going on this forum, to stimulate engagement. Above, I suggested that relationship has a double focus. Yes, we can make a judgment on who is confused. But better for us if we look into the mirror of the other, to see what my reactions are. How else can I come to know myself? By that measure, the more abrasive they are we may see deeper into our reactions.
And if our current level of “life-mastery” is effective, we wouldn’t take on much weight from interpreted abuse. In fact, that interpretation is one of our reactions. Is it worth the investigation?
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December 25, 2024 at 08:49 #49038
amarynth
KeymasterI’ll say a few things.
Spiritual or consciousness development is a lonely path. It is also an individual path. Finding a fellow ‘walker’ on that path is wonderful but does not last forever. You meet, you share and you walk on, and sometimes you make a friend that experiences in that moment similar to you.
Everyone of us still have questions, sometimes burning questions, and sometimes those that we’ve learned to live with. They are there and for myself it is sometimes a joke .. God/Universe knows where I am and if I am to get a direction on a question, well, I am here. That part is a part of faith, but can also be a copout part.
Concepts such as consciousness, soul, and such, are but our descriptions of how we are on our path. They are also individual and I dare say each one here has a different concept or a different experience. Dimi explained about sound and color. Mine, my sigil, my sign to pay attention for example, is a number. These methodologies exist because individually one finds a sensical way to communicate with a designer universe (if there is a designer universe – this is a personal view of the big scheme of things).
So, there are basically three people talking here, and I, in a minimal manner, as I know this is a lonely path but I also know I get hints or someone may use a word that resonates or there is something.
So, we are using words (soul, universe, consciousness, and ….) that we only understand personally. They may not be what the other person understands.
We are using a scheme of understanding that is personal. Our own scheme is not necessarily the same for everyone, although the forms of understanding, the way of mining universal hints, can be developed.
A personal wordset or dictionary, a personal scheme of ‘getting it’, resonance in different ways for different people, a personal education that may or may not make sense today, different areas and experiences on ‘the path’ — discussion becomes very difficult as we’re dealing with an erstwhile ‘Tower of Babble‘ – yes, spelling error is by design. The adult person will take on a massive personal responsibility toward self and other if these issues are even to be approached.
So let me try and quickly make this practical. I suggested a book that for me held many aha! moments. I do not intend to teach this, although I know it fairly well, I am only intending to clarify my own thoughts at this time again because sure as God made Little Green Apples, it will flow and change. I will write it down, as I know the material. If someone gets something out of that, it does not mean that I am right, or someone else is right.
It only means that for one fleeting second, we met one another on our paths and experienced a moment of clarity and consciousness with the same dictionary underlying our understanding. Those moments are precious.
And for heaven’s sake, have some fun! Let me tell you an old African joke. How do you know that God has a sense of humor?
Evidently he made a baboon!
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December 25, 2024 at 13:25 #49064
Dimitar
ParticipantThanks for your honesty, amarynth. I said right away that the problem of what I called semantics is a barrier, that on this topic, is virtually impossible to overcome. Then there’s the individual’s state of consciousness. Generally speaking, a person’s state of consciousness is defined by their level of acceptance. I get what you say about fun, and I entirely agree, however, people need to have a sense of humour and an open mind, in order to have fun, and I found neither, here (apart from yourself).
The topics I ventured to offer responses to outside of the Cornucopia, are topics that I am naturally drawn to, but my well-considered posts written in simple basic language describing simple basic concepts, (this is why I pointed to the reality that truth = divine love, hoping that the concept of love would be a bridge toward some kind of common language), found no acceptance, agreement or understanding (apart from yourself). I’m fine with a lack of understanding and / or agreement, but I found no acceptance, or welcome. On the contrary, random points were taken from my posts which were then subject to a kind of “madman’s ridicule”, by someone, who to all intents and purposes, does not even know what he is doing. I do therefore forgive him, b/c it’s like Aesop’s tale of the lion and the ass, which I will not repeat here.
No matter, it’s all experience and I do not regret my posts, b/c as I said, someone may read them and find something useful. So all good at the end of the day. Thanks for entering the fray and moderating the ‘hiccup’.
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December 26, 2024 at 22:20 #49110
DestinationUnkown
ParticipantMy objective is to find use for this forum as a tool for discussion and discovery.
In the past, I published, moderated and paid for a similar forum for quite a few years, and I know it has potential. It does not take (and does not work with) dozens of participants. Three to five committed to discussion are plenty.
So now we have been given the Percival book. Could that be a topic that would interest people? (Probably the 1,000 pages scares everybody off.) So far – NO TAKERS. Amarynth says the spiritual path is lonely – yes – and no. Also, if our “spiritual understanding” is fragile, we don’t want to mess with it.
I have posted various topics, some of which got a comment, and I have commented on other posts. Would others propose a topic that would be of interest? Maybe Percival is not going to fly. Or we could start with the Kevin Carmody essay.
Our medium is the verbal model of how we scrutinize our perceptions. A verbal model is a map of the territory. The two shouldn’t be confused as synonymous. We may claim that they are very close, but perception is limited, and it is interpreted through yesterday’s perceptions, so it is already out of date. This model we refer to, is located in our thoughts (it’s in memory).
THEREFORE, the human is prone to make an explanation for every circumstance, and the verbal model continuously expands. Just read any thread on this forum, and explanations abound. Even if the explanation is very harsh, and the resultant feeling is terrible, it is better than no explanation at all.
Some perceptions don’t fit into the verbal model at all. (They may also have a high hallucination content), but they are here. Then our explanation is, THERE ARE DIFFERENT REALMS. It is not material, it must be “SPIRITUAL”. Experience always backs up belief, for anyone. It could be for the good; (constructive), or for the bad, (destructive), spirits, ghouls, and Satan. These realms are less tangible, so they need a lot of convincing.
IF we are still reactionary and judgmental, what is the value of the spiritual in our lives?
My post two is not meant to be truths, but benchmarks. Know thyself; then thou shalt know the Universe and God.” — Quote by Pythagoras. So how can we know ourselves, without benchmarks to measure by? My post three is also benchmarks to measure by, not to accept. They suggest how we can interact on this forum. Some talk about mutual respect. For instance:
23. We acknowledge that we are all adults, and do not live in “glass houses”, nor force others to tiptoe around our “no-go-zones”. We can say what we want, with respect. Or realize, maybe it is not even necessary to say anything at all?
24. We have made some commitment to a group that attempts to express their views, and we are also committed to express our own views and look at them with introspection. We are not prone to leave the group or play “take-away” if it looks like we have been leaning on false assumptions.
26. We are not out to crash any belief systems, so we are respecting other people’s boundaries. But at the same time, boundaries are the result of holding a certain context, all of which we are examining. We acknowledge that we come to this blog to improve how we think and act. At least we are willing to look into it.
All of my posts, except post 4, are about introspection. Number 4 was about possible Russian attitudes, which may further explain how that war will progress.
Post 5 talks about perception and then learning, both essential to be a human. But let’s acknowledge their limitations. Basically, there are three realms that it considers, the personal, the interpersonal and the greater world. Do we tend to gravitate to consider the greater world, and ignore the personal and the close relationships? WHY IS THAT?
Post 6 is a Huxley quote further delineating man’s made-up symbols, from the real world of the rhythms of planet earth. Where do we give our major focus? We may say that we “meditate” but what do we get out of it? Has our life shifted?
Post 7 and 8 are David Bohm, given to me by the link that I followed here on GlobalSouth. (All new to me). Then 9 through 12 are exploring Krishnamurti, also given to me by that same Bohm Link, and new to me in these few weeks. My life has shifted greatly by being on GlobalSouth. I can write my own thoughts, or I can reproduce hard hitting words of others, Krishnamurti or Huxley for example. In these weeks everything, also decades of spiritual experience, have taken on a new meaning. I am finding they were all wrongheaded in so many ways.
SOME DAY AN INTERESTING TOPIC WILL COME UP, and explorers will shed their vulnerability and jump in.
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December 27, 2024 at 05:36 #49122
Nico Cost
ParticipantIt is hard enough to discuss one topic, let alone an entire book. Where to start? What is someone looking for? Is the other person interested in discussing a topic someone else is struggling with? What if there is a mess of information with no clear question or thesis
Is someone open to the other person and the other person’s point of view? Does someone very much want to be seen? Does someone want to be seen before they can look at the other person? Is someone receptive to feedback and backlash? Does someone approach the conversation with a monologue? Is there a common goal? Are individual goals compatible or opposed?
You indicate that you have learned things and that you have changed. I’m curious about that. Also about what you’re looking for. And possibly you also have questions for me or want to say things to me. You can always do that. We all have our own starting point, our own thinking and our own goal. Sometimes it comes together. That can be a lot of fun.
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December 28, 2024 at 05:47 #49179
DestinationUnkown
ParticipantHi Nico. It is not my idea to discuss a long book. I have said in a few posts or comments that 6 or 8 points are maximum, not to get dispersed. That’s if you’re very organized. I think obviously, if someone suggests the book and asks others to participate, they want to absorb other points of view. (Could you call that struggling?) We know our administrator is very busy keeping this forum on an even keel.
I said on the above post (first line), my objective is to get more of the potential out of this forum. So if someone says; let’s discuss something, I say yes. If there is a “mess of information”, then it is our responsibility to come up with a clear thesis. I am not put off by that. (And do I surmise, maybe this book is not a good topic?) But consciousness could be a topic, with or without the book.
These below are all good.
Open to the other person and the other person’s point of view?
Does someone very much want to be seen? (psychoanalyzing now)
Does someone want to be seen before they can look at the other person?
Is someone receptive to feedback and backlash?
Does someone approach the conversation with a monologue?
Is there a common goal?
Are individual goals compatible or opposed?Inquiry is about questioning beliefs, not about agreeing with them or trying to find a happy average were everything is possible. If you see the false in the false, it cannot stand. I am not going to make a blanket statement, but yes my outlook and my demeanor has changed in these months. With no force nor desire involved. You could say I read some books, wasn’t that a desire? NO, that was an opportunity that presented itself to me. (Or, it is what it is with or without an explanation).
I said what I an looking for, discovery through dialog on a forum. But I already have discovery, I am not waiting. I get it from my engagement, even if the other is running away. Sure, I have questions to put to you. And of course, we must start with what-is, each of our own starting points.
But let’s not say “sometimes it comes together”. What is that, chance or destiny. We both can commit to discuss something, and search for a limited topic of interest. Let’s not talk here at the back-end of an old post. The home page is no good either, since comments roll-up to four lines. It needs to be a new post on the Hearty Salon. I have several subjects in mind, and I am honing them. I am sure you do also.
I THINK WE TWO CAN MEET by intent, not by chance. Is that suspect?
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